My Kind of Love

My Kind of Love

My kind of love may look a little different to some.

I have known many different kind of loves in my life.

 I have known the kind of love that is truly evil and hateful such as that of an abusive parent who says they love you.

I have known the kind of love that is pure and unconditional such as the love of a child.

I have known the kind of love that is confusing and scary such as a first love.

I have known the kind of love that is on and off up and down such as a so called friend.

I have known so many kinds of love but the love that I feel in my soul for my husband has to be the most powerful love I can think of. Besides that of God of course.

I love him as my best friend, I love with him for our children, I love him in spite of our parents and I love him even through our ups and downs.

I love him because he is not perfect and doesn't pretend to be.

I love him because I am not perfect and he doesn't expect me to be.

I love him when he infuriates me.

I love him even though I infuriate him.

I love him more over time even though time is creeping up quick

I love him because he has stayed all this time.

You know its love when you watch him pick his nose and scratch his ass and you don’t even flinch.

You know its love when he lies in bed after you launch of a nuclear bomb and it smells like you just shit your pants

I’m pretty sure it has to be love when you both can talk about bowl functions and bodily fluids in an everyday conversation.

The kind of love that allows you to plan for the end and know you plan on being there that long.

The kind of love that allows you to never forget the beginning.

I love him when he’s silent and I love him when he won’t shut up.

He loves me because I never shut up, but he knows I can if I want to.

We can drive each other nuts or rescue each other from going nuts.

I love that he is my provider, of trust, faith, comfort, security, and the future.

I love to provide my unconditional love and understanding, even when the chips are down.

The kind of love that is strong enough to challenge each other.

The kind of love to take on the challenges of life together.

I love that even on those days that are off and something is not quite right our love lets us figure it out.

I have been told that there are two kinds of relationships, un- Godly ones and Godly ones.

If I had to bet after nearly twenty two years I would say God really wants us to make it all the way.

He has given us that once in a lifetime chance at the real deal and it has survived the ultimate test of time.  I figure if it wasn't his will, he would have severed our relationship long ago.

We have grown up together and raised children together and now we will be watching our grandchildren grow up together. What a blessing we have been giving.

Now that’s my kind of Love!!!!