Hurry and Catch up!

They say that when you figure out the meaning to life and what means the most to you, you will be happier and more content. For the most part I believe this is a true statement.

What happens though when you spend years discovering who you are and what means the most to you. When you fix your self and grasp life by the you know what. When you let go of the past and work hard at letting go of the hurt. When you finally think you've got it. When you stop sweating the small stuff.

Only to try and move forward but are stopped in your tracks waiting for your loved ones to do the same.
You won't leave them behind and you don't want to. So you stop and you wait, and you wait, and wait,

You know you can't do it for them and you know it will be on there own terms. Yet you stay put and feel like you are being pulled backwards. At times you get tired and fall back a step or two. Then you put yourself back together. You wait some more.

This sounds so sad and depressing doesn't it.

Not really though because you have the strength and the determination that is needed to wait. You know the process and you know how important it is to have your loved ones by your side waiting on you to figure it out.

Each person has their own meaning to life and their own idea of what means the most and sometimes it takes a little longer to stop sweating the small stuff.

Well I hope for all those waiting you continue to do so, It will be worth it in the end.

You could look at it this way what a great love to have when you wait instead of leaving them to do it on their own.