A Little Advice to Daughters from Mothers

A Little Advice to Daughters from Mothers

 

Always talk to God and listen to his advice. His advice is better than anything I got.

Never let anyone change who you are or what you stand for. After all you are who God created so love yourself enough to be you.

Never forget where you came from. You could surround yourself with a thousand people and none of them will love you like your family does.

Don’t let your heart deceive you. Sometimes the heart will blind you from seeing the truth.

Work hard at your dreams and let no one stand in your way. After all without dreams life can be boring.

Never let a man control you. Control equals mistrust and love cannot grow unless there is trust.

Never let a man hit you. Love does not hurt. If he hits you once hell hit you again and he won’t stop until he either kills your spirit or you!

Learn from your mistakes, and yes you will make some, always move forward and leave the past where it belongs.

Stand up for what you believe in never settle for somebody else’s ideas and decisions. That’s why we all have our own thoughts so that we can use our own brain. Don’t let it fall asleep we achieve so much more when we stretch ourselves.

Be a leader in life and love. Know what you want and what is right; make it happen, nobody else can do it for you.

Never pick your nose or a wedge in public. I promise someone will see.

Keep your house clean cause if you don’t your guaranteed to get unexpected company; mom and dad or your in-laws.

Don’t have children until you have finished your own growing and have had enough rest. They will exhaust you for the rest of your life.

Do for others but not too much. It’s ok to say no. No is not a bad thing, but always saying yes can be.

Keep balance in your life. Never work too much that you ware yourself out, but work enough that you can have things you want and do things you enjoy.

Never pass up an opportunity to better yourself, whether that is in your career or your personal life.

Don’t forget about yourself. Do something just for you regularly. You deserve it, and if you don’t one day you will wish you had.

Be sweet and kind and funny but always remember that sometimes you will have to be hard and tough and serious. That’s ok.

Love the people who deserve your love and leave those who do not. Never let your love be one sided cause you will be hurt along the way.

Never think you know it all. You will never know it all and sometimes you will have to ask for help. Keep an open mind and be willing to learn from others.

Probably one of the most important things I can tell you is stay away from drugs and alcohol. You can wipe out all of anyone’s advice if you get tangle up in that stuff. Nothing looks the same from behind a bottle or pipe. You will lose all control of your life and who wants to be controlled by anyone or anything. Life happens so fast that at the snap of your fingers you could be looking back saying where did my life go. Stay clear headed and life is a lot easier to handle when it throws its curve balls, and it will!!!!!

There are too many things to write down but there is a really good book on life and the best advice any person could ever get. It is called the Holy Bible.  Even if you’re not a church goer you can still look for the answers to your questions in it.